More Time to Understand the Pattern and Address What’s Affecting Your Relationship
Sometimes the issue in your relationship needs more than a quick conversation. You may be dealing with recurring conflict, communication that keeps breaking down, changes in trust, or a relationship dynamic that neither of you fully understands how to navigate.
You know the issue is there. You may simply need help looking at it differently. Our 90-minute couples coaching session is designed to give us more time to understand what is happening in your relationship, explore the patterns affecting the way you communicate and connect, and help you identify practical ways to respond differently moving forward.
This is not about deciding who is right and who is wrong. It's about slowing the conversation down long enough to understand better what keeps happening, what may be contributing to it, and what needs to change if you want a different relationship experience.
This Session is a Good Fit If You're...
- Experiencing recurring communication breakdowns or conflict.
- Having the same disagreement in different forms.
- Navigating changes in trust or connection.
- Struggling to understand one another's reactions or responses.
- Recognizing how past experiences may be affecting your current relationship.
- Facing a relationship decision or transition that requires a more intentional conversation.
- Wanting focused support without committing to an ongoing coaching package.
What It Looks Like to Work With Us
During your 90-minute session, both partners will have an opportunity to share their perspective and help us better understand the relationship concern that brought you in. We'll listen for the patterns, communication habits, and protective responses that may be influencing the way you interact with one another.
From there, we'll help you look beyond the surface-level disagreement and offer practical relationship tools, feedback, and guidance based on what we're hearing. Our approach combines trauma-informed coaching, honest conversation, and a married couple's perspective.
We're not here to take sides. We're here to help you better understand what's happening between you and become more intentional about what happens next.
From there, we'll help you look beyond the surface-level disagreement and offer practical relationship tools, feedback, and guidance based on what we're hearing. Our approach combines trauma-informed coaching, honest conversation, and a married couple's perspective.
We're not here to take sides. We're here to help you better understand what's happening between you and become more intentional about what happens next.
Relationship Concerns We Support Couples in Navigating Include...
Communication & Understanding
Recognizing communication patterns that make it difficult to feel heard, understood, or connected.
Recurring Conflict
Looking beneath repeated disagreements and identifying the patterns that may be keeping the conflict going.
Trust & Relationship Repair
Navigating concerns that have affected trust and identifying intentional steps toward rebuilding consistency and connection.
Connection & Intimacy
Exploring the relational patterns, life changes, or unresolved concerns that may be contributing to emotional or physical disconnection.
Past Experiences & Protective Responses
Better understanding how previous experiences and learned ways of protecting yourself may be showing up in your current relationship.
Relationship Transitions & Decisions
Having more intentional conversations about changes, decisions, or circumstances affecting the relationship you're building together.
What You Can Expect From the Session
A Closer Look at the Pattern
We'll help you recognize what may be happening beneath the argument, communication breakdown, or recurring concern.
Practical Relationship Tools
You'll receive tools and strategies based on the specific dynamics and concerns discussed during your session.
Feedback From Both Coaches
You'll receive a trauma-informed coaching perspective combined with the lived perspective of a married couple who understand the work of examining patterns and becoming more intentional in a relationship.
Clear Next Steps
Before the session ends, we'll help you identify practical areas to focus on individually and as a couple based on the conversation.
THIS IS A STAND-ALONE COACHING SESSION
This session is designed for couples seeking a focused, in-depth conversation about what is currently affecting their relationship. While 90 minutes gives us more time to explore relationship dynamics and recurring patterns, some concerns may require continued support beyond a single session.
Should we believe ongoing coaching would better support your relationship goals, we'll discuss our recommendation with you before the session ends.
Because understanding the pattern can change the way you have the conversation.
Ready to take a closer look?
You don't have to keep having the same conversation in the same way.
Book The Reconnection Intensive for Couples package today, and let's take a closer look at what's happening in your relationship, what's affecting the way you respond to one another, and what becoming more intentional together could look like.
Book The Reconnection Intensive for Couples package today, and let's take a closer look at what's happening in your relationship, what's affecting the way you respond to one another, and what becoming more intentional together could look like.
Couple Experiences
ABOUT THE LAWRENCES
Shon & Carla Lawrence | Trauma-Informed Marriage & Relationship Coaches
Since 2021, we've helped couples look beyond the argument and better understand the patterns, past experiences, and protective responses affecting how they communicate and connect.
As Trauma-Informed Marriage & Relationship Coaches, we combine practical relationship tools, honest conversations, and a married couple's perspective to help couples strengthen communication, navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and become more intentional about the relationship they're creating together.
Sometimes love isn't the problem. Sometimes the patterns are. We're here to help you recognize them and begin responding differently.
Coaching services are not a substitute for clinical therapy or medical care. Our services provide reflective support, practical relationship tools, and guidance within the scope of trauma-informed marriage and relationship coaching.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is the benefit of a 90-minute session?
This extended session allows space for deeper dialogue, insight, and strategy around more complex relationship dynamics.
Who is this session best for?
Couples needing more time to unpack communication issues, conflict patterns, or major decisions.
Will we receive tools or strategies?
Yes. Sessions are both reflective and action-oriented.
Can I use my HSA or FSA card to pay for coaching sessions?
At this time, HSA/FSA cards are typically approved only for medical or therapeutic services. Because coaching is not considered medical or mental health treatment, HSA/FSA cards are generally not accepted. We recommend checking directly with your HSA/FSA provider to confirm eligibility before booking.
Is this a substitute for therapy?
No. This is coaching support, not therapy.
Price
$200
By booking this package, you agree to these Terms and Conditions
This package includes
• (1) 90-Minute Couples Coaching Session with Shon & Carla Lawrence
• Practical Relationship Tools: Strategies based on the communication concerns, recurring patterns, and relationship dynamics discussed during your session.
• Personalized Feedback & Guidance: Focused insight to help you better understand what may be affecting the way you communicate, connect, and respond to one another.
• Support From Both Coaches: Trauma-informed coaching, honest conversation, and a married couple's perspective to help you look beyond the immediate issue and identify practical next steps.
Disclaimer: Coaching services are not a substitute for clinical therapy or medical care. Our services provide reflective support, practical relationship tools, and guidance within the scope of trauma-informed marriage and relationship coaching.
