I thought that once my separation was finalised, that the hardest part would be behind me. I was wrong.

From the outside, I was functioning at high level. I had a good career. I was co-parenting. I was dating again. 

I was making decisions and getting on with what needed to be done. But underneath all of that, I was still struggling.

My confidence had taken a huge hit. I questioned myself. I grieved the life I thought I was going to have. I found myself wondering why I still felt stuck even though I was technically 'moving on'. 

What I eventually realised was that divorce changes far more than your relationship status. It shakes your entire identity, your confidence, your sense of security and your picture of the future.

Sometimes the hardest part comes later — when the crisis has passed and everyone assumes you should be fine.

Maybe your marriage has only recently ended and you have no idea what to expect. Or maybe it’s been a year or two, and you’re wondering why you’re still struggling when you’ve done everything you’re supposed to do.

That’s why I created After The Divorce.

I wanted to create the resource I wish I’d had when my own marriage ended.

This free course will help you understand the emotional side of divorce — including grief, identity, confidence and the process of rebuilding your life.

Enter your email to get immediate access to the course and start feeling confident to handle what's happening to you, today. 

45 min total - bite sized videos.

I found the video on rebuilding confidence the most useful, as it made me realise how much I'd changed / lost myself in my marriage. Carol was friendly, honest, calming and reassuring- Sophie B

I like the personal experiences Carol added in as it helps me relate and feel like I'm not the only one here dealing with this emotional warfare on the inside. This course is excellent for people who want to know what's coming after they get divorced. - Jason P

The course made me feel like I'm more in control of the thoughts I'm dealing with, it made me feel reassured. I felt like I was going crazy but now I know that everything I'm going through is normal. Carol's delivery was great, the videos were short and manageable which I needed right now. - Kirsty A