Before You Decide: A 5-Day Experience for Regaining Clarity in Complex Moments
Jory Stillman
Before You Decide:
Before You Decide: A 5-Day Experience for Regaining Clarity in Complex Moments
A Steady Place to Pause
You’re carrying a decision that matters.
You’re showing up, meeting expectations, and holding a lot. And still, something inside knows that rushing this choice would cost you more than time. I see this moment often in people who carry real responsibility.
You don’t need fixing or motivation. You need a place to slow down enough to hear yourself clearly.
Before You Decide is a short, guided experience designed to offer that pause, without asking you to step away from your life or perform clarity before it is ready.
You Might Recognize This Moment
When responsibility is high, even simple decisions can feel weighted.
Even thoughtful, capable people find themselves:
- thinking in circles
- pushing through because it feels easier
- quietly overriding what they know matters
Not because anything is wrong, but because there has not been enough space to orient.
Over time, choices made this way tend to cost more than expected. They are second guessed. They linger. Or they slowly pull you out of alignment in ways that are hard to name at first.
This experience exists to interrupt that pattern with care.
What This Experience Is and Isn’t
This is not therapy.
It is not productivity coaching.
And it is not about being told what to do.
Over five days, Before You Decide supports you in:
- slowing internal pressure without losing momentum
- separating urgency from importance
- restoring enough steadiness for good judgment to return
- reconnecting with who you are, your values and how you want to choose
You will not be given answers.
You will be supported in creating the conditions where clarity can emerge on its own.
This experience reflects the EXPANSIVE™ way of working, creating enough safety, space, and presence for clarity to emerge without force.
How the Experience Works
Length: 5 days
Time commitment: about 10 minutes a day
Each day includes:
- one short audio, 8–10 minutes, recorded by me
- a SoulWork reflection prompt for those who like to write or think on the page
In addition:
- one optional in-person Integration Circle for those who want shared space to reflect and integrate the experience
This gathering is offered once during the 5-day experience and is currently held on Fridays at 12:00 pm ET.
Participation is optional, with RSVP requested to support a calm, well-held container.
*There is no required work, no pressure to share, and no expectation to arrive with clarity.
*This container is intentionally calm, spacious, and thoughtfully held.
What People Often Leave With
By the end of the five days, many people notice:
- a steadier relationship with the decision they are carrying
- clearer language for what matters now
- renewed trust in their own judgment
- relief from the feeling of being rushed or internally split
- clarity and a direction forward in alignment with their values
*Even if a final answer is not immediate, the next step tends to feel more grounded and more their own.
Who This Is For
This experience is for:
- leaders, professionals, founders, and thoughtful adults
- people whose choices affect others
- those who are functioning well, but feel internally unsettled
- anyone who wants to choose with integrity rather than urgency
This is not the right fit if you are looking for:
- crisis support or therapy
- productivity systems or accountability pressure
- fast answers or dramatic transformation
About Me
Hi, I’m Jory Stillman, founder of ExpansiveCoach™, a Master Certified Coach (ICF, EMCC) with over 5,000 hours of experience supporting thoughtful people through complex, critical moments.
My work is grounded in whole-person coaching, nervous system awareness, and deep respect for human judgment under pressure. I am known for holding steady, non-anxious space when decisions matter.
You hold the room.
This is a room that can hold you.
Investment
$49
This includes:
- five days of guided audio
- optional daily SoulWork reflection prompts
- one optional in-person Integration Circle
An Invitation
If you are standing at a decision and do not want to rush it, you are welcome here.
👉 Join “Before You Decide: A 5-Day Experience for Regaining Clarity in Complex Moments
Participation is held with care to maintain a calm, well-held space.
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This package includes
- 5-day guided experience with short daily audio
- Optional reflection prompts for gentle exploration
- Optional in-person Integration Circle (RSVP required)
- No required work or pressure to decide
- Calm, well-held container designed to support clarity and good judgment