You know exactly what you're doing. You just can't stop doing it.
You push them away when things get good.
You choose people who can't show up.
You sabotage right before commitment.
You choose people who can't show up.
You sabotage right before commitment.
You've done the therapy. You understand your attachment style. You can see yourself doing it while you're doing it.
And you're still doing it.
That's not a failure. That's a structural gap.
Understanding doesn't stop it. Insight doesn't end the loop.
What is The Reveal?
The Reveal is a single 90-minute constellation session designed to show you what you can't see on your own.
You come with one specific stuck point:
- The moment you push them away
- Why available people feel wrong
- The sabotage move you keep making
We use constellation work to make the invisible system visible.
You see your role in it. You see what you're carrying. You see what you inherited.
You leave understanding why you can't stop — and what's actually running beneath.
What happens in the session?
First 20 minutes: You tell me the specific moment or dynamic
Next 60 minutes: Constellation work - we make the system visible
Final 10 minutes: Integration - what you're carrying and what's next
Next 60 minutes: Constellation work - we make the system visible
Final 10 minutes: Integration - what you're carrying and what's next
This is not:
- Therapy (we're not processing your childhood)
- Coaching (I'm not giving you strategies)
- A conversation (we're revealing what you can't see through talking)
This is one focused session of constellation work to show you what's running beneath awareness.
Who is this for?
- You know what you're doing (pushing away, choosing unavailable, sabotaging)
- You can describe the exact moment it happens
- You've done therapy and understand why - but you're still doing it
- You're ready to see what you can't see on your own
Who is this NOT for?
- Figuring out if you should stay or go in your current relationship
- Processing trauma or doing ongoing therapeutic work
- Learning communication skills or relationship strategies
- People who want ongoing support (this is a single session)
What you leave with
- Clarity about what you're actually carrying
- A visual map of the system you're operating in
- Understanding of your role in the dynamic
- Next steps if you want to stop it fully (The Break program)
Investment
$400 for 90 minutes
Sessions are held via Zoom.
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After you book
You'll receive:
- Zoom link for your session
- Brief intake form (5 questions to help me prepare)
- What to expect email
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this therapy?
No. This is constellation work - a specific methodology for revealing invisible system dynamics.
Will one session stop me from pushing people away?
No. One session reveals what you're carrying. Stopping it requires The Break (8-week program). But many people need to SEE it first before they're ready to end it.
What if I'm not sure this is right for me?
If you can name the specific thing you keep doing and you're ready to see what's beneath it, this is right for you. If you're still figuring out your dynamics or want ongoing support, this isn't it.
What's the difference between this and The Break?
The Reveal = Single 90-minute session to see what you can't see ($400)
The Break = 8-week container to stop pushing people away ($4,500)
The Break = 8-week container to stop pushing people away ($4,500)
Most people start with The Reveal to see if the methodology resonates before committing to the full program.
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Price
$250
This package includes
What's Included:
- One 90-minute private Zoom session
- Constellation work to reveal the invisible system
- Brief intake form (5 questions)
- Integration: what you're carrying and what's next
- Recording of the session (optional)
Format: Private. Via Zoom.
What you leave with: Clarity about what's running beneath and why you can't stop.