Becoming Mother

You've researched the car seat. You've picked the pediatrician. You've read the books on sleep, on feeding, on what the baby needs in those first hours.

Becoming Mother is six-week program for the work most pregnant women never get to do — until they're already in the deep end. Six 1:1 sessions to walk into motherhood with your eyes open: clear on the parent you want to be, aligned with the person you're raising this baby with, and free of the patterns you don't want to carry forward.

The baby gets hours of preparation. Most mothers get none — not for the inner part: who you become, how you'll show up, what you'll inherit, what you'll break. By the time you notice it matters, you're sleep-deprived and inside it. The patterns you didn't catch are already running. The conversations you didn't have with your partner are now arguments. The mother you meant to be has been quietly replaced by the one you defaulted into.

This is the work you do now, while you still have the bandwidth, the perspective, and the choice.

Six weekly 60-minute 1:1 sessions on Google Meet, each building on the last:

1. The Mother You Want To Be — Define the parent you actually want to be. Leave with a one-page Parenting North Star.
2. The Childhood You Were Given — Identify the patterns from your own childhood you don't want to pass on. Not therapy — pattern recognition.
3. Leading The Conversation At Home — Get aligned with your partner on discipline, screens, religion, in-laws, and division of labor. Includes the Partner Conversation Kit you'll use at home.
4. The Nervous System Of A Mother — Build the embodied capacity to be the calm parent you described — even on no sleep.
5. Boundaries Before The Baby — Draft and rehearse the conversations you've been dreading with family, in-laws, and well-meaning friends.
6. The Fourth Trimester — Integrate it all into a Postpartum Plan that protects you, not just the baby.