RECLAIMING YOUR PLEASURE IS INTENSELY CONNECTED WITH UNDERSTANDING ALL PARTS OF YOURSELF AND HOW IT WAS CONCEIVED IN THE FIRST PLACE
How have you been experiencing your pleasure in life ? Are you the caregiver who constantly gives to others and has little left in the tank for yourself.
When we get to the space of leaving spare time for yourself or even being physically in the moment for ourselves to enjoy the time we have - there may be that feeling of the GAP . . . . . a stagnation of feelings and emotions in how we process and move forwards in enjoying the person we are today with the person we imagined we would be in this moment. When the movement falls through us to feel pleasure - in our inner and outer cycles - if we aren't tuned into our BODY, our outer relationships and our internal dialogue of inner programs that run our psyche - then we can suffer in our ability to feel ESPECIALLY PLEASURE
Women who were controlled through their own pleasure consistently underestimate the meaning of consent into their own pleasure and giving it to themselves as a permission slip.
BEING THE NICE GIRL HAS ALWAYS MEANT WE NEED TO DENY OUR OWN NEEDS.
SACRIFICING OUR HIGHEST PLEASURES COMES WITH THE BETRAYAL TO OURSELVES AND THE AUTONOMY OF OUR BODY
BECAUSE IF WE ARE PEOPLE PLEASES - WE ARE TAUGHT TO LISTEN TO OTHER PEOPLE'S NEEDS, BODY MIND AND SOUL VERSUS LISTENING TO OUR OWN MIND BODY AND SOUL.
AND THE ONLY WAY WE WILL GRANT OURSELVES PLEASURE IS IF WE ARE TRULY WILLING TO BE VULNERABLE AND COMMIT TO OURSELVES IN D0ING THE WORK AND RECLAIMING OUR PLEASURE
Joining forces into a sister hood circle relationships is a beautiful way to nurture yourself and also allow the time for you to commit to going further and requiring your commitment as well as accountability
Thats why I have developed
"The Pleasure Club"
A SAFE and INCLUSIVE space for all women who want support to go on an inner adventure.
WHO IS THE PLEASURE CLUB FOR ?
If you are a woman from who has had lived experiences who are at a point of their journey who have got to a point that need MORE from life.
You are the human who considers others and their needs, a person who has been through their own Raising Up moments.
You have been through times of inner retrospection and on the precipice of moving forward out of the feeling of scarcity in your own pleasure and ready to open up to the fullness of LIFE once again and journey through your own programming - reclaiming your inner spirit, breaking down and rebuilding and reconceptualisation of your own PLEASURE.
The Pleasure Club - starting the 20th January 2023 and journeying right through into July 15th 2023 - a journey from six cycles around the new moon ending at the 6th cycle - with an option to continue for another six months afterwards.
Moon Cycle one -January - February
The opening
New Moon in Aquarius - beginning of a new cycle
Full body immersion - Connection
Learn about how your body is a storage container of emotions and how to tap back in to your
PLEASURE
Learn how energy holds us in energetic patterns and how the three pillars of the Pleasure Club
COMPASSION CONNECTION AND CREATION
are ways in which you will create your improved values on the little steps each day to make space for yourself to feel
Learn about embodiment of emotions and how they show up in your body with creation, connection and compassion helping you to power forward into embodying your own pleasure
Learn how to chart your cycle
Using your cycle and inner critic to help show you the shadows to love in order to help heal and reconnect your connection to your body
Learn about your Ennegram and what it is
Guest Speaker - Sam Baldock - Ennegram Coach
Learning how to understand and embrace your enneagram type so you can thrive in life and relationships
Moon Cycle Two February - March
New Moon in Pisces - sensitivity and perceptiveness
Creation of CONSCIOUS pleasure
In month two - we will use what you have learned in cycle one to move forward into exploring your why.
We look into how self deprecation, devaluation, internalised consequences and societal pressure as well as moral learned values that have taken away from our pleasure and away from our own inner alignment.
We go into a deep surrendering of understanding how we will never get that "perfect picture" in our mind of how things should be before we feel happy to internalise pleasure - instead you will be guided into how pleasure can really turn up when you turn it ON.
We will begin to really define
What is your physical pleasure feel and look like with all of your senses?
How have you created intimacy in your life and how is it nurtured ?
What meaningful activities do you have in your life that fulfil your sense of intimacy ?
Are all of your needs being met so that you can feel true self efficacy and self actualisation before we can access how we operate into pleasure.
By understanding your conceptualisation of all parts of you and placing a daily practice in of your own conception from your journey we will expand your understanding of your shadow and how it shows up needing to honoured in order to fully understand your own pleasure
Learn how practices of giving everything to others but not nurturing yourself has been built around practices of social constructs and how your consent shows up everyday asking you to show up for your own pleasure
Guest speaker Alysha Orjatham -
Creator of How to Fck spiders podcast and Sex is self care
Occupational Therapist - Sex positive and LGBTQIA +Inclusive
Moon Cycle Three - March - April
New Moon Aries - A time to plant seeds
Compassion to your PAST self
and a time to re write the inner script
In cycle three - we will go deeply into the relationships you have with your inner child, teenager and also twenty something and however you are old now -
We start the journey into RADICAL ACCEPTANCE with exploring safely elements that you are ready to receive the wisdom from
We will look at all the parts of developed self schemas that you have with pleasure and show compassion
Creating rites of passages for each version of you that needs to be seen to be validated and to be felt in order to deeply create an inner relationships with the psyche of yourself and a greater connection with your intuition
Guest speaker -
Charlotte Pointeaux - Internationally Award Winning Coach and Shamanic Craftswoman
Moon Cycle Four -April- May
New Moon Aries - A time to cultivate the seeds you planted
Connection to your divine feminine
Connecting deep into the inner and great divine feminine
We explore the connections you have in your life
We explore the Sisterhood wound and how it shows up as the internal critic
The way in which stories of perfection and isolation have taken from your story of pleasure for the whole of your life
We explore your connection to the mother line
We go deep into diet culture and how it has shut ourselves down from our pleasure with our body
We go deep into any inner abandonment and change your inner narrative
How to feel sexy and exploring your own pleasure and not just honouring others pleasure
Moon Cycle Five - May - June
New Moon Taurus
A time to really make things happen
Creation of your reclamation
In this bigger part of the Pleasure club we go into some deep layers
We look deeply at how every event in our life has meaning and has created how we receive pleasure and how we can purposefully create PLEASURE in our life
The creation cycle in your life -
How was it developed
How do you see it playing out in your life still
Moon Cycle Six June - July 17th
New moon - Taurus
A time to concioulsy manifest
Compassion and CELEBRATION
We explore every part of you that hasn't been celebrated in the past and bring forth huge compassion in a CELEBRATION of you
In our last cycle together we will also have a major celebration with guest hosts and a closing ceremony to honour all the women who have completely created a space for themselves in the six months together to curate their own pleasure.
ADDED BONUS - Ennegram Report delived by special guest host Sam Baldock - Ennegram Specialist