“ I went into BTHR feeling so wounded and losing hope that I wanted to keep fighting for my marriage.  After taking BTHR, I now have less fight or flight incidents because going through the process helped me put things into the right light, and brought me freedom.  I recognized that many of my wounds were rooted in lies I had believed long before I had even met my husband, and his infidelity had served to cement those lies.  Now I am working on replacing the lies with truth so that I am a stronger ME.  ”

“ I was able to become healthier in my mind body and soul through learning how to set boundaries in my relationships.  I had to change in order for things to change.  I now feel empowered, like I never did before.  I needed to learn healthy mindsets when it came to setting healthy boundaries in my relationships.  God has given us complete ownership of our lives, and this Biblical Boundaries course outlines and helps us to do just that. ”

“ I entered BTHR with some resistance, knowing I needed it, but ashamed and fearful of my experience and the ugly truths that needed to be shared. BUT, I will say doing it online helped me to handle the group part and gradually, I came to see how much I had to benefit from the others and how much we had in common. ​ It was wonderful to be in a small group … lots to be learned from the shared stories! There was room for responses, for getting personal, for tears without judgement, to receive encouragement and compassion from others. The one thing we could have benefited more from, was time to share. Although the sessions were long enough, the group connection time for me was so very helpful. Coming from such isolation, as the secret things were coming to light, BTHR helped me feel less alone. It also gave opportunity to be vulnerable without feeling so exposed. ​ BTHR came to an end with some sadness that what was begun, was done! But I felt built up in spirit, in truth, enabled to move forward, empowered with new knowledge, tools, and support people, who’ve walked the walk… Bonnie's own story gave me hope for the future, as a believer. She has helped me see how faith and fellowship can build a stronger Me. I highly recommend BTHR even if, like me, you’re just at the beginning of the hard journey to wholeness. Worth it! ”

“ Shattered to Unshakable. Wow! You could not have said it any better than that. Hi my name is Kim. God blessed me with a dislocated shoulder last May of 2020. Who knew that God had a plan for me? Jeremiah 29:11 “For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”. The plan God had for me was to be off work for 6 weeks. This allowed me to meet and work with Bonnie through Betrayal Trauma and also Biblical Boundaries. Both of these groups helped to start the work and healing from the betrayal of my husband. The Betrayal Trauma group allowed me to see the hurt and distrust that my husband had chosen to allow into our relationship and I learned that it was his issue:“Not Mine!” The knowledge of this changed everything. I learned about my personal value, that I have the right as a wife to expect my husband to treat me with respect. Bonnie taught me about God’s biblical boundaries, that I have the right to set boundaries for my husband, and he for me. Bonnie worked through with me to understand they are needed when sextual betrayal happens. When my husband betrays me, it is necessary for me to set boundaries with him, acknowledging he’s broken my trust. If this is you, I believe you would benefit from her giftedness. ”

“ For 15 weeks, I had the honour of meeting with Bonnie and my Go-To-Gals. The BTHR course allowed me to feel a sense of relief, as I gained understanding that my partner's sexual integrity issues are his and that porn is not 'normal,' as I had been informed by a pastor. I am continuing to learn about myself, my partner, but most of all, God. When I said “I do!”, pornography was was not His plan for us. The course has and is drawing me closer to God, to understanding myself, and my partner. I am thankful I found this group when I did because I was sinking in the quicksand and getting in over my head. I would encourage any women who is dealing with the sexual integrity issues of their partner to connect with this group. This has been my launch pad into a healthier me. Carolyn S Edmonton, AB ”